Win vs Right

Some have to be totally right, at all cost. Others play to win. There is a difference between winning while right and just winning as a team. Check the various ways one can win, even if not right.

Apologize for being hot? I think not!

Many people play very small in their lives. They're afraid to look arrogant or offend someone for being great themselves. It's time we stop apologizing for the space we occupy. Stop being sorry for being good, hot, sexy, smart, confident, etc. You're one of a kind. Be the best you that you can be. Period. Even in humility.

Locus of Control

Intro: Locus of Control Earlier in the week, Monday to be exact, the post was about a Rogue Agent. The example of eating a cake was used to discuss how one can moralize food and some of the potential consequences of doing so. The perspective of agency to eating cake might seem a bit trite … Continue reading Locus of Control

How I get away with no New Year’s Resolutions

While New Year's Resolutions are amazing, they're not working for me very good. My best resolution to date is to not make any. Been great for years now. But, how do I account for improvements and dream chasing if I kissed resolutions goodbye? There are alternatives and I'm sharing one of them now... enjoy the full read. Hope it inspires someone to work on their Resolutions a bit better this year.

The Butterfly Flutter: Nerves about…

There's a weird sound. No idea what it is. It's late at night and you're all alone. Is that sound an intruder, a cat outside, or a moment of imagination gone wild? Fight or Flight nerves kick in. But, what if that sound was your mate coming home instead of an intruder Would the Fight or Flight System still have you revved up in nerves? Read on to check out the role of the brain in all of this... in a non-scientific way.